Starting preschool is a huge milestone not just for the child, but for the whole family. It’s a moment filled with emotions – from excitement to anxiety. How can you prepare your little one for this change and ensure a smooth transition? Here are some proven tips.

1. Talk Honestly and Positively

Children are excellent at picking up on their parents’ emotions. If you are stressed, your toddler will be too. Talk about preschool as an interesting place where they will meet new friends and learn fascinating things. However, avoid idealizing it – instead of saying “it will be wonderful,” say “it will be interesting, you will discover new games.” This builds a realistic picture.

2. Read Books About Preschool

There are plenty of great books available that help familiarize children with the topic of preschool. Reading stories together about characters going to preschool helps your child understand what to expect. You can also play pretend preschool at home – teddy bears and dolls can be the students, and you can act out scenes from a typical day.

3. Visit the Preschool Before Starting

Most schools organize orientation days. Take advantage of them! Let your child see the classrooms, the playground, and meet the teachers. If that’s not possible, at least take a walk around the preschool, show them the building, and say: “This is your preschool, this is where you will play.”

4. Validity Your Child’s Emotions

Remember that your child has the right to feel afraid, sad, or angry. Don’t deny their feelings by saying “there’s nothing to be afraid of.” Instead, say: “I see that you are nervous. That’s normal, everyone is a little scared of new things. I am here for you.” Feeling understood provides the child with tremendous support.

5. Create a Goodbye Ritual

A short and sweet goodbye is key to success. Long partings in the cloakroom often increase stress. Come up with your own ritual – e.g., a “fist bump,” a kiss on the nose, and a reassurance: “I’ll be back for you after snack time.” It is important to keep your promises, as this builds trust and a sense of security.

Remember that every child develops at their own pace. Give yourselves time and be understanding with one another. Good luck!